Eduard Angeli (painting credit). La Chauve-Souris (Thomas Fersen).

Voici les deux éléments accompagnant le présent état d’esprit.

When life is „in a flow“, no one is asking about existential issues. And even, when it goes bad – it is (unfortunately) proved that humans have the enormous capacity to live with the conflicts, incoherences and even with a dose of „mal-être“. It’s a rationalisation effort even of our most involuntary acts, automatised and for which we have already prepared some excellent logical reasons/excuses, as if it was the only possible solution. This kind of attitude would be unacceptable, coming from another individual; but concerning ourself, it’s an acceptable logic.

Another typical excuse showing the fear of change is the projection of our problems: responsible is „the other, the wife/husband, the child, the boss“, or even „the bad luck, the destiny, the life“. As if those reasons would be a fixed characteristic of our being/nature and that we are therefore supposed to live it. NO. It is not. It is just your weakness, your fear concerning life and your lack of social experience and of open mind that puts you in those kind of „fixed“ frames.

What about thinking that you, signed by yourself, are responsible for the persons you attracted around you and whom you decided to spend your life with? Don’t make yourself a victim of destiny. That’s too easy to be a solution.

Take the maîtrise of your own situation, of your life. Don’t get lived. Live actively. Change your attitude towards life and your changes will lead to a life you chose by yourself.

Don’t be afraid of the unknown. You won’t loose your securities. You won’t make your entourage upset. You are not living for your entourage. Get out of your frame. Open up your mind. Be self-confident. But not only publicly. Be self-confident within yourself. The Core confidence.

(All this, considering that your health situation is intact).

Don’t adopt the fear of another age: influences of parents, social environments, obedience, fidelity to an inner authority, that obliges us to follow certain opinions, behaviours and attitudes. NO. Stop that.

Of course, maybe it’s obvious. But I specially have some people in mind, indeed, when I write this down. Very good-hearted people with a lot of potential, but unfortunately not able to get out of their actual situation.

For now, that’s it.

PS: talking, talking, talking – and interaction – the most important of all.

„…car il pleuvait sur Nantes..“